"We've been together for 9 years already, and feel like our conversations have gone deeper than ever. We feel like we know each other even better, and feel more prepared for the journey ahead."
Design a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime
You’ve found The One. Now, what if you could craft a lifelong relationship that stays as intentional, vibrant, and connected as your love feels today?
Intentional Marriage Design is a unique 10-session journey that guides engaged, newlywed and well-seasoned couples through the art and science of sustaining love—for the long haul. This isn’t premarital counseling. It’s a personalized, proactive approach to building the kind of relationship that lasts not just through the honeymoon phase, but all the beautiful decades beyond.
What You’ll Explore Together
Why This Program Matters
Most couples spend months planning a beautiful wedding day—often at significant expense. But how many intentionally invest in their marriage?
This program is for couples who want to:
For those who are already in a committed, long-term relationship, you probably didn't explore all the areas we're going to cover during this program, or to the depth of what you've discovered a need for now. This program helps you if:
What You'll Leave With
By the end of this journey, you’ll walk away with:
Let’s Create Your Love Story—By Design
You can live anywhere. Be anywhere. As long as you're ready to show up for each other with intention, we’re ready to help guide the way.
You’ve found The One. Now, what if you could craft a lifelong relationship that stays as intentional, vibrant, and connected as your love feels today?
Intentional Marriage Design is a unique 10-session journey that guides engaged, newlywed and well-seasoned couples through the art and science of sustaining love—for the long haul. This isn’t premarital counseling. It’s a personalized, proactive approach to building the kind of relationship that lasts not just through the honeymoon phase, but all the beautiful decades beyond.
What You’ll Explore Together
- 10 Sessions (90 minutes each) held virtually—accessible from anywhere in the country
- Deep-dive conversations guided by science, not sermons—rooted in the research of the Gottman Institute, Dr. Gary Chapman and other experts in the relationship field
- Access to an exclusive reading library to deepen your understanding of what makes love work
- Hands-on homework and practices, including:
- Interviewing couples happily married 25+ years
- Discussing dreams, fears, finances, intimacy, parenting, sex and more
- Co-creating your written Marital Plan—your personalized roadmap for a lifelong partnership
Why This Program Matters
Most couples spend months planning a beautiful wedding day—often at significant expense. But how many intentionally invest in their marriage?
This program is for couples who want to:
- Start strong, with tools to communicate, connect, and thrive
- Build rituals and habits that nourish their bond
- Get ahead of conflict—before it ever begins
- Sustain the spark through real-life seasons, transitions, and triumphs
- Gain new skills and create a plan to strengthen their already-existing relationship
For those who are already in a committed, long-term relationship, you probably didn't explore all the areas we're going to cover during this program, or to the depth of what you've discovered a need for now. This program helps you if:
- You're feeling challenged resolving issues these days
- You're feeling disconnected or that you've lost that luvin' feeling you once had
- You're entering a new stage of your relationship and want to do it right
- One or both of you have changed over time and you want to create something even better than you've already had with each other
What You'll Leave With
By the end of this journey, you’ll walk away with:
- A personalized relationship blueprint aligned with your values and goals
- A toolkit for communication, conflict prevention, and continued emotional intimacy
- Confidence in your shared foundation—and joy in what lies ahead
- And yes… a roadmap to keep your relationship healthy, happy, and h-o-t-t for decades
Let’s Create Your Love Story—By Design
You can live anywhere. Be anywhere. As long as you're ready to show up for each other with intention, we’re ready to help guide the way.
You’re Investing in a Lifetime of Love. Let’s Make it Extraordinary.
More Testimonials (don't just believe me!):
- "We're so glad we did this! We now have a plan on how to keep our relationship going strong and another on what to do if the sh** hits the fan."
- "Awareness and problem-solving will help in the future. Being aware of our love languages have already completely changed our relationship, which is crazy given we've been together for 9 years already. Now I understand her better and what she needs."
- "I have a better understanding and framework of how to go about filling his love bank other than just the usual ways."
- "That's it? We're done with the program? Where do we go now? We've already recommended this to 3 of our engaged couple friends!"
-"If we took our beginning assessments again, our results would be very, very different!" Said during Week 7 of the 10 week program
-"I've gotten compliments from my boss on how I address situations at work now, after completing this course. I think of you whenever I address a difficult situation and apply the techniques you shared with us."
-"This course completely changes the perspective on how you talk to and work with others."
-"We do fall back on what you taught us and are forever grateful for you!" - Two years after completing the course
-"Selfishly I'm excited you are moving things to a larger scale so *spouse* and I can continue to participate and learn from you!" (couple having completed this program and after learning about Hearts Unlimited's upcoming relationship podcast
One of my clients approached his dad as part of his homework, to interview him about his 30+ year marriage. That conversation led to this speech at their wedding. This is why I do what I do; why couples take this course and the effect it can have on all those around us.
vc: Vonnahme Productions